If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship
that’s not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not
treating you as you deserve then hell no,
you can’t « just be friends ».
A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you
along, then he probably is.
Don’t stay because you think « it will get better. »
You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying
when things are not better.
Don’t make plans around theirs, if they want to see you they will.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a
bunch of different women.
He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant,
why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends
separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it
against you later.
You cannot change a man’s behaviour. Change
comes from within.
Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important
than you are… even if he has more education
or a better job.
Do not make him into a god. He is a man,
nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated
WITH you, he’ll cheat ON you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him
to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending…
compromise is two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships.
There is nothing cute about baggage.
Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE
you…a relationship consists of two WHOLE
individuals…look for someone complimentary…
not supplementary.
Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be
Mr.Right.
Make him miss you sometimes…when a man
always knows where you are, and you’re always
readily available to him – he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother’s house.
Never co-sign for a man.
Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you
everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
And finally: if you find love let it go…and if it comes back its yours to keep.
Share this with other women… You’ll make
someone smile, another rethink her choices, and
another woman prepare.